The powerful urge to swear and utter cuss
words has its origins deep down in human psyche. They rise out of the swelling
cauldron of turbulent human emotions which are in a constant state of friction
and tension. When they can no longer be controlled, they spill out through the
tongue in the form of swear words. The tongue unleashes a volley of words
which, by no means, are sweet to hear, and hurt those to whom they are
directed. Not only, do they shake the persons present, but also disturb the
calm and peaceful atmosphere. Such is the destructive power of these swear
words that their sharp negativity casts a cloud of gloom in the minds of the
listeners for a long time to come and portrays a bad impression of the person
who utters those words. Though cuss words are in no way acceptable, their
increasing use has begun to gnaw the very fabric of a civilized society like a
termite, and weaken it from inside.
But it is not only in fits of anger that we
utter cuss words. They are spelt in states of anxiety, in jovial moods, and
even in utter astonishment. When uttered in those states of mind, they are by
no means harmful and offensive in nature. But even those swear words make an
indelible mark on people, though for only some moments. Offensive or not, swear
words have become not just words, but powerful means of expression and
feelings, with numerous connotations and various meanings, when spoken in
different social situations. Their negative affects far outweigh the positive
aspects and have become widespread in modern conversations and lingo.
Social scientists and psychiatrists studying
the reasons behind such liberal use of swear words have come up with results
that are nothing but alarming. Curse words, it seems according to research and studies,
serve many purposes. Swearing not just releases anger and frustration, but also
let other people know how you’re feeling. They channel the emotions inside to
flow out as a verbal onslaught and lays bare the hidden anger suppressed within
the soul. They also make statements bold and creates a direct and sudden
emphasis - statements which otherwise would have been orally spoken sentences.
Whatever the reasons, swearing affects all
of us in some way or the other – emotionally, mentally and physically, though
the signs are very subtle. Only determined efforts and a cultivated mind will
rid us of the habit of swearing and uttering curse words. Let us make a firm
resolve not to swear, even if the impulse to swear is very strong. You can
always find substitute words and expressions which communicate the same
emotions, if you really work around with your language. This is an initiative that will make
our language free of cuss words, and it can be an infectious one, if people join hands
and swear not to swear.